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Digital detox in the age of AI

This is a reference page, not a daily dose. Read it once, then close the tab and try day one.

What a digital detox is

The term arrived when phones did, and it has been diluted ever since by retreats charging four figures to take your handset at the door. Strip the marketing and something useful remains: a deliberate period during which you reduce, restrict or remove specific digital habits, then observe the difference. The observation is the active ingredient. A detox with no noticing is just a weekend with worse Wi-Fi.

Three things make one work. It is time-boxed, so it has an end you can see from the start. It is specific, naming the habits you are cutting instead of vaguely using your phone less. And it is replaced — the freed hours are given a destination before you begin, because an empty evening will be filled by whatever is nearest, and what is nearest is the thing you just quit.

Why the AI era changed the assignment

The old detox targeted consumption: feeds, notifications, the infinite scroll. That fight is still on, but a second one opened. What gets outsourced now is not your evening, it is your thinking. Drafting, summarising, deciding, remembering, phrasing a difficult message, working out what you actually believe about something — each of these can be handed over in a second, and each hand-off feels like efficiency rather than loss.

That is why an AI-era detox has a second axis. Cutting screen time while asking a model to think for you all day is like quitting the cigarettes and keeping the patch, the gum and the vape. The question is no longer only how many hours but which faculties you have stopped using — and how quickly they get stiff.

There is also more to wade through than there used to be, because the feed is now mostly AI slop, and its political cousin slopaganda. Detoxing is partly just refusing to be the trough.

Signs you need one

• You unlock your phone with no idea what you opened it to do, several times an hour.
• You cannot start writing anything — an email, a message, a note — without a model producing the first sentence for you.
• A queue, a lift, a red light or thirty seconds of waiting now feels unbearable without a screen.
• You reread the same paragraph of a book three times and give up on page four.
• You have stopped forming opinions before checking what the consensus is.
• You feel behind, permanently, on information you never chose to follow.

None of these is a diagnosis. Together they describe a nervous system that has been trained to expect a hit every ninety seconds and is now getting restless between doses.

A realistic 7-day plan

One change per day, each one kept for the rest of the week. Nothing here requires a cabin in the woods.

• Day 1 — Measure. Write down your screen time and your unlock count before changing anything. Add a rough count of how many times you asked a model something. You need the baseline; you will not believe it later.
• Day 2 — Kill the pull. Turn off every notification except calls and messages from actual humans. No badges, no previews. The apps must now be opened on purpose.
• Day 3 — Move the drug. Charge the phone outside the bedroom overnight and buy a €10 alarm clock. First and last thing you see stops being a screen.
• Day 4 — One unassisted task. Pick one thing you always outsource — the first draft, the day's plan, the reply you are dreading — and do it yourself, badly, without help. Keep the bad version.
• Day 5 — Reclaim the gaps. No screen in queues, lifts, waiting rooms or the first ten minutes of a meal. Be bored on purpose. Notice what your brain does when nothing is feeding it.
• Day 6 — Grey and slow. Switch the screen to greyscale, uninstall the two apps you resent most, and remove one AI shortcut from your home screen. Friction beats willpower.
• Day 7 — A real half-day off. Six waking hours with no phone within reach, spent on something physical with an outcome: walking, cooking, repairing, someone's company. Then compare against day one's numbers.

Withdrawal, honestly

Days two and three are the worst, and they are not subtle: phantom vibrations, a hand reaching for an empty pocket, irritability, a conviction that something urgent is happening without you. Boredom will arrive as a physical sensation before it becomes a pleasant one. This is not evidence that the detox is failing — it is the measurement you came for. Nothing that had no hold on you would protest this loudly.

Expect the first unassisted draft to be worse than what the machine gives you. It should be. You are lifting a weight you put down a year ago. Keep going anyway; the second one is already better.

Staying off the drip

A detox that ends with everything reinstalled was a holiday, not a change. What tends to hold afterwards is small and structural: keeping the phone out of the bedroom, keeping notifications dead, and reserving one recurring window — an evening, a morning, a whole Sunday — that is permanently offline and defended like an appointment.

For AI specifically, write down the two or three tasks you have decided it may do for you, and treat everything else as yours. The rule matters less than the fact that a rule exists, because the default is otherwise always, and always is how a tool becomes a prosthesis.

If you want structured help rather than willpower, the Center for Humane Technology's Take Control guide is non-commercial and concrete, and Time Well Spent collects the research behind why none of this is your fault.

The hAIroin take

hAIroin is a satirical daily blog about our addiction to artificial intelligence, so treat this page as the leaflet folded inside the box: written by the pusher, technically accurate, faintly embarrassed. We published seventy doses about the comfort of not thinking. This is the one that tells you where the exit is.

Read the manifesto for the worldview behind it, or take today's dose anyway — the archive is right there. The first one is always free.

Side effects may include: longer attention span, tolerable silence, and the unsettling return of your own first drafts.

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